5 ways to take your dreams seriously

5 ways to take your dreams seriously

Share on Pinterest A lot of us work hard for our dreams, but what happens after we get there? We look back to those early days and think about all the crazy things we could have accomplished if only we could have started earlier. Unfortunately, when it comes to life-changing experiences like getting married or having kids, most people don’t have time for any of those. And with that pressure comes complacency. The problem with this is, we can never be certain exactly how good we would have been at accomplishing whatever project or goal we set out to accomplish. But we should also know that there might not be a single right answer to everything, so it makes sense to get creative. By taking your goals seriously, you’ll give yourself the confidence you need to keep going forward. Here are several tips for bringing your dreams into reality this way:


1. Choose a career you love


In order to become successful, you must find something you’re passionate about. Once you make that decision, choose one of the best options and start working towards finishing it as quickly as possible. If you really want to go down this route, try to come up with some plan to do exactly that. You can create lists or write prompts like these ones: How Often Will I Work This Week? For Me, Would It Be Beneficial To Study Abroad? What Are Some Great Places To Visit In Each State? Which One Do I Want To Go Back To? The next step is making sure you figure out who you’ll be sending a message to. Maybe you’ve decided you’d rather be an accountant in Europe than return to home town and spend six months at grandma’s house, but if it means so little time that you’re willing to send money or time away from your family, that’s fine! There are plenty of jobs that allow you to travel abroad and work for a while, such as a job in New York City that allows to travel throughout North America and work long hours every week for a year. If you decide they’re too big for you, start small — maybe you’d prefer to live in Paris than go down low cost of living areas in Italy? Use this information to put together a list of jobs or opportunities that fit your interest level (e.g., work in technology, retail, etc.). Then, go deep into researching a couple of places you’ve always wanted to visit (e.g., Barcelona) and see if they match what you’ve already determined. Ask friends who already live there, or even ask them. Don’t forget to check with potential employers and your local tourism board as well to find out what their requirements are. Remember to ask questions and reach out to people before entering into their business relationships so you can get the names of the companies in question.


2. Start saving


You’ve probably realized that financial savings are crucial to having a solid source of income, so it probably makes sense to start putting them toward your dream. When trying to save, remember to start small. While you may initially worry about cutting back on your purchases, it’s important to take note of where that money goes. Think about it this way: if you spent every penny in London, you’d still be earning almost $1,000 per month! Similarly, if you buy every meal in France, you’ll likely be spending less than $50 per month on food. If you want to save for another trip, maybe traveling abroad will help. Not all travel destinations require visas, or even permits, so do some research to determine whether you and your partner would be able to enjoy their stay. Finally, remember to cut back on some unnecessary luxuries that add unnecessary friction to your life to start with. Most countries will be fine without any plastic straws or bottles of water when you fly over. Don’t let your wallet suffer because you didn’t have to buy bottled water in your own country. Consider hiring a personal shopper, to help you avoid items that aren’t essential to enjoying your vacation. As a side effect, you’ll be saving time on travel. Save time! Make better decisions. Get rid of useless or no-good-for-you foods, and replace them with healthier options like fruits, vegetables, and grains instead. Replace soda and processed meats with watermelon or spinach instead. Instead of ordering pizza on your computer, use coupons. If you eat fast food, consider buying organic meat to save money. Have an open mind about anything. Traveling doesn’t have to be difficult. After looking into various types of vacations, check out websites like TripAdvisor or Booking.com that have reviews from travelers who have had plenty of fun over the holidays with you. Just remember to do your research to find out which type of vacation experience works for you, and then go with one of those. Don’t just pick it. Compare packages or services that work toward similar prices and check with companies that offer discounts for the first few months. These extras can help cover lost costs, though again, make sure to do your research first and figure out whether you’re getting an amazing deal or saving time or money by skipping out on the extra steps you need to take. Don’t skimp on researching which resorts will be nice in your area, or what hotels offer amenities. Sometimes, finding out you are missing out on something valuable is all-consuming and soul crushing. So, take a moment to carefully review your options and choose based on your needs. You’ll get to know that perfect holiday is sitting right in front of you as soon as you decide that adventure.


3. Find the right job


As wonderful as it may seem to go home and grab your suitcase and suitcase, sometimes it’s simply easier to book a flight and fly straight back home. That’s why it’s a great idea to look into how airline companies work. Many airlines provide flexible schedules or telecommute possibilities. Check each airline’s policy website to find out if they have policies if that’d work for you. And remember to read up on your destination before booking a flight so you know what accommodations and restaurants are available. Another option is to look into the perks provided by a company with an excellent reputation, such as JetBlue’s miles program, Air Canada’s Flex Jet Card, United Airlines’ loyalty rewards program, and so many others. However, you shouldn’t focus on flight schedules at this point. When searching for flights, look outside of major airports and smaller cities. This can be harder than flying from Los Angeles to Chicago because of the length of the journey. Look online for details from your destination, including restaurants, attractions, and hotel offerings. With that info, you’ll know whether they offer free breakfast or lunch. Also, ask ahead about extra baggage allowance — they might have additional space in economy class, to accommodate larger luggage, so be sure to pack something sturdy and spacious. You’ll also want to ensure that you know exactly how much you’ll be spending before you leave. Before heading off to your trip, it’s important to pay attention to their policies to make sure that you have the appropriate coverage on your trip of plane tickets, accommodation, and meals. You’ll be glad you did.


4. Volunteer and help out


Most organizations have a service or a cause they want to improve. Volunteering is definitely one of the easiest ways to get involved and help those in need. Whether volunteering for someone else’s organization, helping with organizing events, or just helping your community at large, volunteering can help you build that community connection you were missing when you went the conventional route of becoming a professional. Volunteering does require that you be dedicated to a purpose or to a cause, but it can be incredibly rewarding. Even if it’s a full-time gig, volunteering still helps prepare you for other aspects of life after you graduate from college, such as gaining new skills and building a portfolio, plus helping those around you. Although it isn’t necessary to volunteer, there shouldn’t be a shortage of opportunity after graduating high school. Therefore, if there are organizations that would benefit from your input, look into finding an entry-level position. If not, consider starting your own nonprofit, giving back to your community by running a fund raiser, or offering online courses to educate people. Whatever you choose to do, do your research beforehand to determine whether it’s something that sounds right to you. It’s wise to look into how many times someone needs a particular skill or if they need some support for that experience — both positive and negative. Find a reputable mentor or coach who knows that person can benefit, either financially or in return, from giving them the opportunity to learn. If you’re unsure on making an immediate connection, don’t forget to check out your network. Is your brother, uncle, grandpa a member of a club or society? Did your teacher mention a church or a place of worship? Talk to your neighbors. Everyone you know has heard horror stories, but it’s easy to overlook it and believe it’s a sign of immaturity and lack of foresight. Instead, connect with someone who can tell you about an event happening in your area. They can help you see all the hidden gems out there. Plus, it takes time to make friends. Who knows how many old acquaintances you’ve forgotten?

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